Monday, February 6, 2012

No Excuses Number Two




My husband ran in his first triathalon last summer. This is what he did: Swim .25 miles, Bike 9 miles, Run 3.1 miles. The girls and I were happy for him. We enjoyed the day at the beach and watched the race. After the race he said that he wanted to do something else. Train for a Marathon! I thought he was kidding. You know, he was all hyped up about completing the triathalon and wanted to top it. Well top it he did. He ran in the Rock 'n' Roll Marathon in November. A marathon 26.2 MILES! We were so proud of him.
(He is the one in the grey with his hands in the air)
I tell you all of this #1: because he set his goal and reached it. #2: because I have always wanted to run. My excuse is that I have bad knees, I don't have time, who will watch the girls if we are both running, etc. Well this weekend I began my training. All I have to say is - pray for me to keep going!(I am the one in the chair with my hands in the air!)

Monday, January 23, 2012

Pray for Luo Shi Hao

http://www.heartsent.org/waiting-children-photolisting/china/listing/luo-shi-hao.html

This is the link to information about a HEALTHY boy who lives in CHINA. At 7 years old, he lost both parents, his grandmother took care of him for one year, until she was unable. He is now in an orphanage waiting to be adopted. He is 15years old. Please take a look and pray about him becoming your son.

Friday, January 13, 2012

No Excuses

For those of you who are fans of the reality show "The Biggest Loser", that is the title of their new season - NO EXCUSES. Well, that is going to be the title of my life this year - NO EXCUSES. There are so many things that I have always wanted to do and I find myself making excuses as to why I have not done them yet. I ususally say that I do not have enough time, I do not have the resources to make that happen, or I am just not that talented to pull that off. But I think that my biggest excuse is procrastination, you know I will just do it later. I will get to that tomorrow, or next weekend. No big deal, right? The definition for procrastination is: to put of intentionally and habitually. Wow, that doesn't sound like "no big deal". Procrastination is often a way to avoid that which we do not wish to deal with today, and an attempt to outrun it through every tomorrow. That is not how I wish to live my life, running from things and intentionally avoiding things. God gave us so many days here on this earth. I do not want to think that I am intentionally and habitually wasting what He gave me, whether it be my time, talent, or desire.
So here it goes, I am ready to make a change in the way that I think. I have written down my goals for this year and will share one with you each month. This will also help keep me accountable. I am starting small, but I have some woppers that I have really been procrastinating about for a while now. If I do one a month, that means that by the end of the year 12 things that have been put off for a while now will actually be accomplished.
Number One - I cleaned out my closet. I know to some of you that may not seem very interesting, or very important, but it was long overdue and believe me it REALLY needed it. Everytime I cleaned my bedroom or any part of my house for that matter, I would put stuff in my closet. I would just never clean out my closet(procrastination). Some of you are probably thinking, "that's why her house always looked so neat",lol. Well, you never came in my closet. LOL. The thought of actually going in my closet to clean it was daunting. More and more things would get "placed" in my closet, until my walk in closet was no longer a walk in closet. I took pictures, but quite honestly I am embarrased at how much "stuff" was shoved in there. It took longer than I thought it would, but I was able to really clear it out. I now have a great start to our YARD SALE that will be happening at the end of March. I also have a great weight off my shoulders everytime I am able to WALK IN to my closet!

Saturday, December 17, 2011

End of the Year Update

We have still been raising awareness of the orphan crisis, and we have still been raising funds, along with raising our children, working, and just a hanful of other things. Blogging is just not my thing and so that has fallen off of my "to do list". But I did want to update you on what has been happening and will try to update more often.
We picked blueberries again this year and had probably twice the amount we had last year. We are experienced pickers now! We are blessed that Mr. A will allow us to come and pick as often as we can and pick as much as we carry! Thank you.
We have jewelry in a couple local shops. Business owners have allowed us to place our jewelry in their stores and we just replenish what sells.
We had two more YARD SALES! Our big money makers and best way to talk with LOTS and LOTS of people about why we feel called to CARE FOR THE ORPHANS.
The first yard sale was at my house again this spring and we did well. The second yard sale was just last month (november), our fall yard sale, and we did GREAT! We were able to have the sale just off the busiest street in the middle of town in a business parking lot. We talked with so many people and made several contacts for later fund raisers. God is SO GOOD.
We will have our next sale in March or April, so save all of your "treasures" for us to come and pick up.

Monday, January 3, 2011

Sorry, but I do not know how to put this on the blog. You will have to copy and paste it. It is well worth watching.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWHJ6-YhSYQ&feature=player_embedded

Saturday, December 11, 2010

No Matter What

I was talking with a friend of mine last week and she told me about a friend of hers, who I will call Anna. Anna's little girl is 10 years old. She adopted her when she was just a baby. Anna was at the hospital when she was born and actually got to hold her when she was just minutes old. Anna took the precious little baby home and fed her, bathed her and loved her. Anna completed all the necessary paperwork, paid all the lawyer fees and went to court to adopt this little girl. Anna sent her daughter to school and put her in extra curricular activities like gymnastics and dance. They took family vacations and went to family reunions. Anna took care of her when she was sick, disciplined her when she was naughty, and rewarded her good grades.

Anna and her daughter have just been informed that their lives are now going to be changed. The woman who gave Anna the wonderful gift of this precious child 10 years ago, has changed her mind. Did I mention that Anna has raised this child for 10 years? Is this really possible? Well according to the courts, the birth mother has the right to go to court and get custody. The same rights that she willingly gave up, are the rights that she now wants back. Now Anna and her daughter are on a court assigned visitation schedule. Anna's daughter must now visit with a woman that she does not know several times a month, and a court date is pending.

I wondered as I wrote this. Should I share this story? Isn't this the very thing that people are afraid of when they adopt? But this is real. This is life. We don't get to chose what happens. We chose how we handle what happens.

Right now Anna has no regrets of adopting. She has 10 years of memories, 10 years of recitals, 10 years of smiles and hugs, 10 years of putting band aids on boo boos and brushing teeth, 10 years of tucking her daughter into bed, as well as 10 years of mother and daughter talks. Anna knows how deep her love is for HER child and this situation will not change that love.

Right now Anna's daughter has no animosity towards anyone. She is scared, but she knows HER MOTHER loves her. She can see it first hand as she watches HER MOM fight for their family to stay together. The bond that they share after 10 years of laughing at saturday morning cartoons, family dinners, shopping for new clothes, taking her to get her ears pierced, and driving her to sleep overs can never be broken.

I keep thinking about a song by Kerrie Roberts called No Matter What. In this song she says: "I gotta say that this has taken me by surprise, but nothing surprises you. Before a heartache can ever touch my life, it has to go through your hands. Even though I keep asking why... no matter what I'm gonna love You. I know that You can find a way to keep me from the pain, but if not I'll trust You no matter what. "
Please pray for this family and all those involved and know that No Matter What He will love you.

This is a link to the song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OA3MSqufJP4


Lot of work - Lot of Love

So thankful to Brandi for posting the photos of our One Voice for the Millions Booth. A lot of work went into getting ready for that day. We only heard about the craft show two weeks earlier. Brandi and I attended the Mission Forum at our church monday night. This is where our church officially sets the dates of each mission trip for the upcoming year. There are trips to China, Haiti, Israel, Guatemala, Las Vegas, North Carolina, and more. They have the leaders for each team there that evening to discuss the many opportunities to help. It was a great a night full of fun and fellowship with people who are very mission minded - like us!

We talked with Rosemary that night and she told us about a craft show that would be going on at the hospital in 2 weeks. She said that she had some friends who would be selling some jewelry in the show and she was sure that they would share their table with us.

We got busy and for the next several nights we worked making necklaces and bracelets. But the best thing was it wasn't just Brandi and I; our husbands helped, our children helped and our neighbors came over and helped!

A lot of work went into making that day happen, but also a lot of LOVE!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Our Purpose

Christine at our OVFTM Booth


Our new bracelets
Today, Christine and I set up for a craft show to hopefully fundraise for our mission trip. Although, our profits were low we do not feel it was a waste of time. Our main purpose is to bring awareness to the fact that there are close to 150 MILLION orphans who can not speak for themselves. The fundraising is just secondary. We both have adopted children from China and can not bear the thought of the other children waiting...hoping...to have a home.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

The Hole in our Gospel

I am reading a book called "The Hole in our Gospel". This is actually the second time that I am reading it, because it is so full of information. Here is a portion of the book:



When a major jetliner crashes anywhere in the world, it inevitably sets off a worldwide media frenzy covering every aspect of the tragedy. I want you to imagine for a moment that you woke up this morning to the following headline: "One Hundred Jetliners Crash, Killing 26,500." Think of the pandemonium this would create across the world as heads of state, parliaments, and congresses convened to grapple with the nature and causes of this tragedy. Think about the avalanche of media coverage that it would ignite around the globe as reporters shared the shocking news and tried to communicate its implications for the world. Air travel would no doubt grind to a halt as governments shut down the airlines and panicked air travelers canceled their trips. The National Transportation Safety Board and perhaps the FBI, CIA, and local law enforcement agencies and thier international equivalents would mobilize investigations and dedicate whatever manpower was required to understand what happened and to prevent it from happening again.

Now imagine that the very next day, one hundred more planes crashed- and one hundred more the next, and the next, and the next. It is unimaginable that something this terrible could ever happen.

But it did - and it does.

It happened today and it happened yesterday. It will happen again tomorrow. But there was no media coverage. No heads of state, parliaments. or congresses stopped what they were doing to address the crisis, and no investigations were launched. Yet more than 26, 500 children died yesterday of preventable causes related to their poverty, and it will happen again today and tomorrow and the day after that. Almost 10 million children will be dead in the course of a year. So why does the crash of a single plane dominate the front pages of newspapers across the world while the equivalent of one hundred planes filled with children crashing daily never reaches our ears? And even though we have the awareness, the access, and the ability to stop it, why have we chosen not to? Perhaps one reason is that these kids who are dying are not our kids; they're somebody else's.

If you heard on the radio that thousands of children die each year in car accidents, it would likely strike you as sad, but I doubt you would become very emotional. If instead you learned that your neighbor's child just died in a car crash, it would hit much closer to home, and your emotional response would be much deeper. You would immediately want to respond - to comfort your neighbors and to come along side them in their grief, helping in any way you could. But what if you learned that your own child had been killed? You would be devastated at the deepest possible level. It would be a life-shattering and profoundly personal tragedy for you, one that would forever after redefine you. For some reason we are wired in such a way that we can become almost indifferent to tragedies that are far away from us emotionally, socially, or geographically, but when the same tragedy happens to us or someone close to us, everything changes.
How might God look at this issue? Does He look at the suffering of a child in Cambodia or Malawi with a certain sense of emotional distance? Does God have different levels of compassion for children based on their geographic location, their nationality, their race-or perhaps their parents' income level? Does He turn the offending page to read the sports section-or is His heart broken because each child is precious to Him? God surely grieves and weeps, because every one of these children is HIS child-not somebody elses'.